Week 10 - The Scenic View - Hooray for Makeover Day!!

The Trip
You could feel the nervous energy in the air as the ladies prepared for their makeovers; the purpose being not only to provide them with fantastic and winning professional head shots, but also to give them that boost every woman can use to create a positive shift in their self-confidence.

The amazing talents of make-up artists Misty Easler and Pamela Barrios transformed the client's on the inside as well as the outside.  Smiles were brighter and postures were straighter.  You could sense the difference. 

Here's one example of a transformation courtesy of fellow blogger and DFS Hudson County client Cristina Nieves.  For a look at the "after" pics of the other fabulous ladies click here. They look amazing!


She was also gracious enough to answer a few questions about how she felt afterwards:

Your Guide
What is it about a makeover that makes me think of Maya Angelou's Phenomenal Woman? Instead of blabbing on and on in this week's blog post about my experience, I'd like to use Ms. Angelou's poem as "Your Guide" to feeling better about everything we have to offer as confident, beautiful, and empowered women.
Phenomenal Woman
By Maya Angelou 


Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.

I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size

But when I start to tell them,

They think I’m telling lies.

I say,

It’s in the reach of my arms,

The span of my hips,

The stride of my step,

The curl of my lips.

I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.

I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,

And to a man,

The fellows stand or

Fall down on their knees.

Then they swarm around me,

A hive of honey bees.

I say,

It’s the fire in my eyes,

And the flash of my teeth,

The swing in my waist,

And the joy in my feet.

I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,
That’s me.

Men themselves have wondered  
What they see in me.

They try so much

But they can’t touch

My inner mystery.

When I try to show them,

They say they still can’t see.

I say,

It’s in the arch of my back,

The sun of my smile,

The ride of my breasts,

The grace of my style.

I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.

Now you understand
Just why my head’s not bowed.

I don’t shout or jump about

Or have to talk real loud.

When you see me passing,

It ought to make you proud.

I say,

It’s in the click of my heels,

The bend of my hair,

the palm of my hand,

The need for my care.

’Cause I’m a woman

Phenomenally.

Phenomenal woman,

That’s me.
Words from Your Fellow Travelers
"Bangin!"
"Wait til my kids see me!"
"Oh My God!"
"You look amazing!"
"Wow!"
"You guys really know what you're doing" (in reference to the make-up team)

Week 9 - All Aboard the Social Network Bandwagon



 
The Trip
Personally, I love social networking and everything that comes with it. I find that it comes naturally to me. That wasn't always the case though. I had to learn that in order to open doors and create opportunities I would have to peek my head out of my protective turtle shell. That is not the case with everyone, some have to draw it out gradually and others have to draw it out daily.

 
 

In this week's session we had the privilege of having Mrs. Ericka Shoulars as our guest speaker. Ericka Shoulars is not only an IT Project Manager with AGI but is still active with the North Jersey Chapter of the Delta Theta Sigma Sorority, Incorporated, a public service organization with over 200 chapters. She came by to give us the ins and outs of social networking. 
 
The information was definitely helpful in this crippled economy where sometimes you have to know somebody who knows somebody to find an opportunity. She informed us that networking is basically creating links that link to other links. :) The more links you have the more opportunities you create.  
 
Your Guide
Key Features of Networking:
  • Networking is constant, not a one time thing (constantly have to work it like a part-time job)
  • Realize the power of a network; it involves reciprocity. Which is basically exchanging for mutual benefit. Click the link for a full definition.
  • Work on your elevator speech (what you can offer). Tailor it to your audience
  • Even though they are not a potential employer, treat them like one (keep an open mind as to who can be helpful to you/don't burn bridges)
  • Be true to yourself, consistency is very important!
Use Connection Tools

  • Create an account on LinkedIn or if you're searching for a more personal connection (different crowd) create an account on Facebook or both to create an even larger network.
  • What you do with social media can't be take lightly, what you put out there is important
  • Join an organization (stay active in that organization). You can easily find an organization by using a search engine and keywords such as non-profit, art, etc. Business/Calling Card is always a handy tool but especially in times where you lack the time (quick meetings) & LinkedIn actually gives you a website you can include on your calling card
Words from Your Fellow Travelers 
 
"I'd like this session to be interactive."
 
"I might not like you but I will respect you."
 
"It's a small world."
 
"Their perception is their reality."
 
"You only have one chance to make a first impression."
 
"You have to be very diligent and vigilant."
 
"Like anything it's how you use it."
 
"You drive your social media personality."
 
"Use the tool, don't have it use you."
 
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